Photo Story Friday…Jaime’s Story

PhotoStory Friday
Hosted by Cecily and Kelli

I’m very excited to begin sharing once again the inspirational and touching stories of our readers whose lives have been touched by melanoma. I came across Jaime’s story through our Facebook page (UV Skinz) and I’m honored to share it with you. It’s a real tragedy when someones life is overtaken by this preventable disease.  Raising awareness is key! Please feel free to leave your comments…

Jaime Regen Rea

April 6, 1977 — March 16, 2007

Jaime was only 29 years old when melanoma claimed her life. A beautiful, vibrant life has ended before it had a chance to bloom. And it’s just not right.

Who could have guessed what a profound effect one little ugly mole would have on our family and everyone who knew Jaime and her courageous fight? That mole on her back, perhaps encouraged in its mischief by Jaime’s teenage addiction to tanning beds in search of a “killer” tan, was the beginning of a 9-year journey filled with surgeries, chemo treatments, radiation, and clinical trials. Oncologists, surgical oncologists, dermatologists, radiation oncologists, interventional radiologists, and melanoma specialists became our extended family; cancer centers and hospitals became our second homes. Jaime was stage II for 4 years, just long enough for us to start to relax, and then it advanced to stage IV for the last 5 years. The last year her condition began a steep downward spiral, and we found ourselves going from really bad scan reports to even worse ones — and from very nasty treatments to even worse ones. But her amazing smile never faded and she never lost hope, even when all the medical experts told her there was none.

Along the way, Jaime touched many lives with her positive determined attitude, beautiful smile and contagious laugh, and her strong will to live. She loved life and lived it to its fullest, never complaining about her pain and discomfort. Throughout her journey she brought hope and inspiration to hundreds of other melanoma patients and their families around the world. She fought this evil disease ’til her last breath, never believing that she wouldn’t survive. However, at the end, even though her mind was still willing herself to fight another day, her tired and worn little body no longer had the strength.

 

Jaime was my best friend, my hero, my precious baby girl, and the light of my life; she was Daddy’s little girl and spoiled rotten. I hate this evil disease for taking her from us all and for taking her future and her dreams from her. And I will do everything I can to continue Jaime’s fight against melanoma because I know that is what she would have wanted.

 

I miss you, Sweetypea, and love you with all my heart -

Jaime’s mom, Donna

Thanks to Donna Regen, AIM at Melanoma and in loving memory of Jamie!

What is Aim at Melanoma?

Aim at Melanoma is a non-profit organization committed to melanoma research, education, and awareness. We offer a melanoma community for patients, caregivers, and advocates and collaborate with the world’s top melanoma researchers to find a CURE

3 comments March 5, 2010

Sun Protection Habits Start Early!

Good sun protection habits must start at an early age. It’s kind of the same idea as the admission process for a Santa Monica preschool; if your kid isn’t on the waiting list shortly after birth then you might be out of luck. Likewise, if you don’t teach good sun protection habits from an early age the harder it is to enforce them down the road. All joking aside we know that 80% of your entire sun damage occurs before a person reaches 18-years-old.  This statistic is one of the  reasons that Rhonda Sparks created UV Skinz swim shirts; “To Get Kids Covered” and protect them from potential skin cancer.

It can be a challenge to get your toddler or preschooler to stand still long enough to slather on sunscreen, that is why UV Skinz swim shirts are so awesome especially for the wriggly little ones! Each shirt is soft, comfortable, has a UPF of 50+ and they come in designs cool or cute enough to please everyone. 

Here are some tips to help teach your children great sun protection habits:

1. TEACH BY EXAMPLE! No matter what the habit–children learn by example. If they see you wearing sun protective clothing, applying sunscreen daily, wearing sunglasses and wide-brimmed hats then they are more likely to pick up on those good sun protection habits.

2. DON’T STRESS! Now there is one thing that I have learned as a Mom and that is that stressing out my children or scaring them into doing something doesn’t have the right outcome, ever! If you are more relaxed about the expectations you have about sun protection and make it fun then children will be more receptive. The last thing you want to happen is to have your child think the sun will burn them into dust if they miss a spot while applying sunscreen! Just take them to the UV Skinz website and let them pick out their favorite UV Skinz swim shirt. Make sun protection as easy as slipping a shirt on! (Because actually it is!)

3. MAKE IT EASY! Teach your children the “ABCs for FUN in the SUN.”

A = AWAY. Stay away from the sun in the middle of the day.

B = BLOCK. Use SPF 30 or higher sunscreen.

C = COVER UP. Wear a T-shirt and a hat.

S = SPEAK OUT. Talk to family and friends about sun protection.

Please feel free to share your routine or tips that you use in your family to promote good sun protection!

Add comment March 2, 2010

Flutter Favorite

Celebrity Baby Scoop notified us that there has been another UV Skinz siting in Hollywood! It appears that Savannah Mahoney, one of Marcia Cross’ twin daughters, can’t get enough of her UV Skinz. The photo below shows the two leaving Savannah’s music class. That’s right! Savannah wasn’t even swimming and she wanted to wear her UV Skinz! But who could blame her? Our Pink Flutter design has to be one of the cutest swim shirts on the market. It is so cute and so in demand that 2010 will see a new Purple Flutter! Same classic design with a new color scheme for your purple loving little ones. Check out UVSkinz.com in the near future for more information.

COMING IN 2010!

Add comment January 29, 2010

We Did Something.

Below is a short article that was recently posted on Mama Bird Diaries about various celebrities and groups joining the Haiti relief cause:

Last month, I went on Scary Mommy’s website and saw this. You have to click to see it. I know. The reality of life with kids can be pretty gross, right? So, of course, since then I’ve been looking for a way to gross out my readers. (Some people have goals of inspiring their readers with beautiful, poetic prose but thankfully I do not.) And finally, it hit me. This is the nastiest, ickiest thing I’ve seen in the last week… Are those dreadlocks in his beard?

I just wanted to watch the Hope for Haiti telethon and take in the sweet sounds of the heavenly Justin Timberlake and then Pitt has to go throwing his super groty beard all over the place. Well, at least we all know Jennifer Aniston is definitely over him now.

Speaking of Haiti, I must thank all of you who took the time to comment on my fundraising post!! And all of you who helped spread the word on twitter and elsewhere (like Marinka, Wendi, Jessica, KazzieLB, smilinggreenmom, techsavvymama and princessmikkimo).

And MEGA thanks to my amazing corporate partners, Yogamat Boutique and Baby Star who each matched my $200 contribution. But it got even better over the weekend when I was contacted by UV Skinz, a fabulous swimshirt company, who also wanted to match the offer!! So thank you to UV Skinz. I’m not really surprised that this company would step forward to help.

The president, Rhonda Sparks, started the company after losing her 32 year-old husband to skin cancer, leaving her to raise her 3 boys. She decided her life mission would be to raise awareness about the disease. UV Skinz produces swimshirts in tons of cool designs so kids literally don’t want to take them off.  Yes, the one shown here has popsicles! Please check out their website.

So that means we raised $800 for Haiti relief!! The money will be donated to the Clinton Bush Haiti Fund.

As Justin sang, hallelujah!

Add comment January 26, 2010

The Next Big Zing

Skin protection meets fashion in these fantastic UV Skinz clothing. Now you can protect yourself and your loved ones from the dangerous rays of the sun. Comfortable, breathable, and soft to the skin UV Skinz didn’t miss a beat!

more about “The Next Big Zing“, posted with vodpod

Add comment October 12, 2009

How to do Skin Cancer Checks

The following is an article giving instructions for proper skin cancer self-examinations. If you have never done it yourself it is good to read up and understand what you should be looking for and what your dermatologist is looking for. If you have never been checked by a professional now is the time to do it. Just because the sun is getting covered up by the clouds it doesn’t mean that your skin hasn’t been damaged and the signs are just starting to show. You can read this and other similar articles at CancerCompass.com

How To Do Skin Cancer Checks

Daily Press, Newport News, Va.

September 4, 2009

Skin cancer is the most common type of the disease, but even its most deadly form – melanoma – is very curable if caught early. Doctors recommend monthly self-exams in addition to regular checks from a professional:

Use the right equipment. Make sure the room is brightly lit and look into a full-length mirror if possible. Use a handheld mirror to check hard-to-see areas, or ask a loved one to help.

Know your markings. Learn where all your moles, spots and freckles are so you’ll recognize new growths or changes in existing ones.

Be thorough. Go from head to toe, without forgetting underarms, the tops and bottom of hands and feet, between fingers and toes, under nail beds and on your scalp (use a comb or hairdryer to part hair). Lift up breasts or excess skin and use a flashlight to look into your mouth.

Look for any changes. This includes new spots, sores that don’t heal after two or three months and enlargement or color changes in existing moles, including redness and swelling. Precancerous and cancerous growths can be flat or raised; some may bleed easily or have a crusted surface.

Learn your ABCDs. Melanoma growths tend to be Asymmetrical; have an irregular or rough Border; combine Colors such as brown, pink, white, red and blue; and have a Diameter larger than a quarter-inch, or about the size of a pencil eraser.

Don’t panic … While some skin markings are present at birth, others can appear throughout your lifetime – and be perfectly normal.

… but err on the side of caution. If you’re worried about something, check with your doctor, especially if you’re fair-skinned or have a family history of the disease.

(c) 2009, Daily Press (Newport News, Va.). Distributed by Mclatchy-Tribune News Service.

Add comment October 12, 2009

Diagnoses-Double-Take!

Here is an interesting article questioning the validity of the recent spike in Melanoma diagnoses. Apparently doctors may be diagnosing for the worse and considering the majority of blemishes deadly rather than letting sleeping freckles lie. I guess it is best to be on the safe side, but it might be affecting us more that we know.

Melanoma on the Rise, or Is It Just Diagnoses?

By NICHOLAS BAKALAR
Published: September 28, 2009

In recent years there has been a sharp rise in reported cases of malignant melanoma, the deadliest form of skin cancer. But a British study has found evidence that the epidemic may be due at least in part to “diagnostic drift,” a growing tendency to identify and treat benign lesions as malignant cancers. The findings may raise the temperature in an already-heated controversy.

The study, published in the September issue of The British Journal of Dermatology, examined a cancer registry with 3,971 cases of melanoma and found that incidence increased 48 percent from 1991 to 2004, similar to the 44 percent increase reported by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention over the same period for American whites. The disease is almost 20 times as common in whites as in blacks.

But the British researchers found something odd in the data: almost all of the increase was in diagnoses of the earliest stage of the disease, where it is difficult, and sometimes impossible, to tell a malignant lesion from a melanocytic nevus, a type of benign mole. There was no change in the combined incidence of the later stages of the disease, and mortality increased only slightly.

One possible explanation is that dermatologists and pathologists are finding cases earlier, treating them, and preventing more serious disease from developing. But melanoma is commonly diagnosed at various stages of severity, and if its incidence were truly increasing, the authors write, there would be increases found in all stages of the illness, not just the earliest.

“We think that in borderline cases dermatologists and pathologists are erring on the side of caution,” said the lead author, Dr. Nick J. Levell, a dermatologist at Norfolk and Norwich University Hospital in England. “Over time, the criterion for what is a cancer gradually moves.”

Experts not involved in the study expressed widely varying opinions.

“Every study over the past 10 years has shown that the absolute number of melanomas is rising,” said Dr. Darrell S. Rigel, a professor of dermatology at New York University. The death rate from melanoma has also been going up, Dr. Rigel said, but so has the survival rate. In other words, while more people are getting the disease and dying from it, early identification and treatment has simultaneously allowed more people to survive.

But if this were so, Dr. Levell said, “there would have to have been a coincidence of a large increase of just Stage 1 melanoma which had been almost exactly matched in both time and magnitude by a large improvement in therapeutic effect.” He finds this “improbable.”

Marianne Berwick, a professor at the University of New Mexico who has widely published on the epidemiology of melanoma, said the study was controversial but convincing. “A lot of dermatologists will argue that they’re getting better at diagnosing melanoma, but I don’t think that’s very likely,” Dr. Berwick said. “They’re taking a lesion that would not be diagnosed as melanoma 20 years ago and calling it melanoma.”

The issue is further complicated by the role of sun exposure. Dr. Julide Tok Celebi, an associate professor of dermatology at Columbia, strongly disagreed with the study’s conclusions. The increase in melanoma is real, she said, and “the only logical explanation is environmental exposure.” She added that these days people were being exposed to “significantly greater” amounts of ultraviolet radiation.

But Dr. Levell said sun exposure, even though it had well-established risks, could not explain his findings. “Squamous and basal cell carcinomas are no doubt caused by sunlight,” he said, “and those increases are concentrated on the face and neck.” But the diagnoses of melanoma in the registry were mostly on the back, trunk and limbs, areas not consistently exposed to the sun. This means that exposure to sunlight cannot explain the increased number of lesions reported as malignant, he said.

Dr. Levell acknowledged that while his research suggested that diagnostic error explained the melanoma epidemic, it did not provide proof. What is needed, he said, is a randomized study.

“Look at cases 15 years ago, look at cases today,” he said. “Jumble them up and analyze them in a blind study to find out if it’s true. No one has managed to do this yet.”

Add comment October 5, 2009

09-09-09

Today is the Ninth day of the Ninth month in 2009, or 090909. It’s a big deal!

The Chinese use numerology to help understand the significance of particular events, and particularly honor endings as that is the stage for beginnings. This is especially exemplified by the number 9, because it is the last number in the natural series from 0 – 9, which means it is about completion. Over time, the number has become linked with fulfillment, endings, conclusions, completion and finishing up loose ends.

In the Western world, the field of numerology also attributes positive qualities to the number 9 – it means an evolutionary point at which you are poised to create something new as you finish what has been. The number nine is the ‘oldest’ in the series which means that, as in life, the elder has seen and learned the lessons of all the other phases of life and now innately understands how to respond to and care for others; the number nine is humanitarian in nature.

The shadow side of number nine is the awareness that there needs to be an end to many situations (relationships, careers, life choices, etc.) which may not be easy. There is potentially grief left in the wake of endings as you recognize what you are leaving behind as well as the emptiness that comes from making space through completions. It’s time to reconnect with and face the emotions that created what you need to let go of because you cannot move forward if you are holding on to the past. This is not about creating drama, or performing, but about authentic and complete release of what no longer serves you.

Nine can be about humanity and giving to others, but it can also be about cruelty as the emotional energy surrounding your endings pushes to the surface for awareness (and healing). Remember that nine is the most ‘advanced’ number, so you have the power of choice in the way you handle our transitions.

Also, the total of today’s number – 090909 – is 27. This is one of the most auspicious numbers for making change in Feng Shui, as many rituals last for 27 days. It is amazing how many changes you can make in just 27 days! One ritual for creating change in your life is to move or change one item in your home or office daily for 27 days in a row – by shifting your physical space, you are moving the energy in your life.

If you choose to honor what needs to end in your life and business today, you are creating the space for what is trying to come in; that is, you have cosmic timing on your side to help you complete the loose ends and get ready for the new.

Three Ways to Activate the Power of 090909:

1. Take action on letting go of what needs to end in your life. If you have tolerations, or things you are putting up with, that is a place to start. That might mean the squeaky door in your house, the friendship that feels draining, the business routine that seems pointless and isn’t getting you the results you want. What do you need to end, or complete, that will allow something new to come in? By the by, endings don’t have to be harsh… they just need to be authentic, honest and clear.

2. Call the infinite power of the Universe into your life through fire. Fire is a powerful symbol of transformation, and is used in many rituals to clear away energy that is no longer needed. You can light a candle and release in your mind’s eye what you don’t need any more into the candle to purify that energy and let it go from your energy space.

You can also write out what you want to release (regrets, fears, haunting memories) and burn that piece of paper as you request the Universe to take that energy from you and cleanse it. Or you can just enjoy the peace and serenity of a candle for a few moments as you recall the best parts of whatever it is that you are releasing. In any case, invite the Universe to support you in your transition.

3. Use the number 9 symbolically in your environment. You can get 9 tealight candles or a picture of 9 things or even draw the number 9 and hang it where you can see it comfortably from your desk. By placing the number 9 in your space, you are referencing and invoking the number of completion. It is especially powerful today… essentially, you are jump-starting your ability to tie up the loose ends in preparation for all the new that’s getting ready to enter your life.

One last tip: if you are out of alignment with any endings or completions that either need to happen or that need to be released, this is the most auspicious day to get that handled. What could be better than getting yourself harmonically aligned with your endings on the cosmically most auspicious day for completion?

Add comment September 9, 2009

We have a WINNER!

Thank you to everyone who entered our giveaway! Random.org chose entry number 47! Congratulations…Kathy Pease!!! You have 48 hours to claim your prize!

1 comment September 2, 2009

Road Trip Approved!

UV Skinz swim shirts are so versatile that even though the name implies “swimming”, they can be worn any day–all day!

See UV Skinz featured on Canada AM! (Video segment starts at 1:56)

Here are some reasons why UV Skinz is the best choice in UV protected clothing!

  • Cost effective — A garment costs about the same as one or two bottles of sunscreen, but lasts much longer
  • On average, a more effective UV blocker — Less prone to “missed spots” or “under application”
  • Dependable — Doesn’t wash off, rub off, dissipate, penetrate, or expire
  • Not messy — Spillproof
  • Not an irritant — Doesn’t cause eye irritation or acne
  • Quicker to apply — Covers large areas in a hurry

 

UV Skinz at a softball game

UV Skinz at a softball game

Thanks to Traveling with Baby for the great pic!

1 comment August 29, 2009

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The company was established after Rhonda Sparks, the Founder and President, lost her husband to skin cancer when he was just 32 years old in 2001. This sparked Rhonda's passion to raise awareness and educate others about sun protection, but never losing sight of how valuable it is to PLAY and HAVE FUN outdoors!
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